Tuesday, May 8, 2007

Life is shorter than i think ... how to cope with death ?

maafkan aq menyinggung kembali hal yang sensitif macam ini





Pearl Jam


Hanya saja, ada perasaan - perasaan ga enak yang aq alami.
Jujur,dah sekian hari ini aq takut tidur, bunga tidur bukan lagi hal yang menyenangkan bagi ku. Perasaan bersalah, perasaan dikejar - dikejar itu yang selalu aq alami saat tidur. Sehingga buat aq tidur merupakan momok.Dan Entah dah berapa minggu air mata terus mengalir , kampus bukan lagi zona nyaman dan aman bagi aq. Too much memory reminds me to someone whom i hurt unconciously ...

Bnernya bulan yang paling aq takutkan adalah bulan april n Mei , di bulan - bulan ini lah aq banyak merasa kehilangan ... April 2006 Aq kehilangan orang tercinta yang selalu aq anggap kakak perempuan terdekat(tante),Mei 2006 sosok org yg aq kagumi n cintai tulus (the one whom i imagine to marry with) passed away coz of traffic accident. Di bulan yang sama , aq & keluarga aq mengalami kecelakaan , pergelangan tangan aq retak di GIPS selama 3 bulan. Don't know why God still trust me , n give me opportunities to live ...

It was last year

This year in April i lost someone who's definitely meaningful to me ..

the main problem i face for the past year n the next years is How to cope with death ... The best way of it

Semoga quote di bawah sdikit bisa memberi pencerahan buat sahabat yang mgkn mengalami hal yang sama yg aq rasakan.Tapi sebenarnya , quote ini buat aq pribadi yang ingin pula aq share buat sahabat.

There is a foundational truth that you must believe: God's love and mercy are infinite. Therefore everything that happens to us in life, good and bad (from our viewpoint), is the best thing, of all possible things

Without belief in God and Divine Justice, death is an incalculable tragedy. It is the end of everything.

Belief in God means triumph over death. Death is not seen as an end, but as a beginning. Our life on earth is only an eye blink; it is over almost before we know it. Our real life, in eternity, then begins. Although we miss people we love when they die, it is just a single phase of our eternal lives,

Someone's life did not end. He/She has just entered into a new and much better phase of his life. He/she will live forever, just as you will. Being with God is being in the Paradise that we were created for. It is a fulfillment and a completion. And when you pass on, you will be united with him/her again.

You can ask God to get messages through to the one you lost. God will surely do this. she will not be able to reply, that it not the way it is, but she will hear what you have to say to her. Don't forget to thank God for doing this for you

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